Friday, 11 April 2008

But...

Loving couples once a while would have little arguements along the path they are moving on.

Sometimes, should they be asked about their relationship, this maybe the answer :
"Our relationship is great. But......"

This is the time when "but" surfaced.

What I'm trying to say is... having this "but" is not necessary a bad thing nor approach-ending of a relationship. In fact, nobody should ever worry about it at all. Yes, "but" can be painful sometimes. Tears can even be dropped. Hearts are cracked by the statement after this unpleasant word.

If everything, every steps we're taking to move ahead with our lives is so beautiful without any barrier, arguements, or fights, it's going to be perfect and dream of everyone, right?

Then again, guys and gals, think....yes, THINK hard and positive.

A love life without "but", is vulnerable to the outside influnce. Couples of the such "perfect" relationship will never fall in the the session of thinking and solving for the "but".

Without "but", there may be one corner of our hearts and life that will forever be uncovered and understood.

Without "but", we may not learn to appreaciate.

Without "but", we may not care a thing about "but"

Without "but", we may not know how much deeply in love we truly are.

Without "but", we may never will understand and share to enjoy the meaning of...

**L~O~V~E**

So...in my humble opinion, nobody is perfect. And no relationship is perfect. When a relationship is not perfect, "but" will exist.

However... "But" is an essential tool in a healthy relationship to keep moving on. Without it, it's just meaningless.

No one will realise the beauty of love, until you're caught in it.



~(,") CheeRz (",)~

ps... A special thanks to my buddy, FS for getting me to realise about this unique word... :-)

1 comment:

  1. FS as is Fwu Sheng? haha..an interesting blog. how come i didnt notice u write in here..

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